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Chapter 2 — His Father Watched Him Crash Twelve Times—Then Finally Explained Why

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He simply stood up and picked it back up.

In July they worked on braking.

In August they practiced tight circles between orange cones.

In September Ray deliberately moved the cones closer together.

Cole noticed.

“You’re making it harder.”

“Yeah.”

“Why?”

Ray shrugged.

“Because easier isn’t waiting for you out there.”

Cole rolled his eyes.

Then he made the turn.

By winter, the boy who had once thrown his helmet into the gravel could control that big Harley at walking speed.

By spring, Ray started following him around the lot on a second bike borrowed from another club member.

They practiced stopping suddenly, restarting on uneven ground and keeping their eyes through a turn instead of staring at whatever frightened them.

But the motorcycle was never really the entire lesson.

I began to understand that after watching them for a year.

Ray wasn’t trying to create another biker.

He was trying to raise a man who wouldn’t collapse the first time life refused to help him.

Cole was seventeen when he arrived one Saturday furious about a track meet.

He had lost a race he expected to win.

He kicked at the gravel while Ray unloaded two bottles of water from a saddlebag.

“Coach screwed me,” Cole said.

Ray handed him a bottle.

“Maybe.”

Cole waited for more.

None came.

“That’s it?”

Ray looked toward the cones.

“You going to spend next month training or explaining?”

Cole muttered something I couldn’t hear.

But he trained.

A few months later he won.

Ray didn’t mention their conversation.

Neither did Cole.

That was how they communicated much of the time.

Short sentences.

Long rides.

When Cole graduated high school, they came to the lot before the ceremony.

He rode three perfect circles, stopped beside Ray and took off his helmet.

“You know normal fathers buy graduation gifts, right?”

Ray reached into one saddlebag and tossed him a small box.

Cole caught it.

Inside was a new pair of riding gloves.

Cole laughed so hard he had to sit on the motorcycle.

“You’re unbelievable.”

Ray pointed at the gloves.

“Wear them.”

Cole did.

College took him farther from Asheville, but he kept coming back whenever he could.

If the last Saturday of the month fell during exams, they moved the ride.

If rain turned my gravel into mud, they stood under the office awning and argued about motorcycles until the weather broke.

Once, when Cole was twenty-one, he missed three months.

Ray came alone each time.

He never complained.

He’d pull in, park the Heritage and drink coffee with me.